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Andrea Pellettiere

Self-awareness is the defining trait of effective leadership, but the hallmark of great leadership is the capacity to adjust and change based on such insights. Any good leader will examine the motives behind what they do, but truly great leaders can transform awareness into behavior. Actions and reactions are modified to fit the context, particularly when dealing with different team members. Adjusting your leadership style to the individual and situation is a core skill that any leader should possess.

If you’ve experienced the journey from individual contributor to supervisor, the transition from doing to managing is a tough switch. With this shift, it’s not just about your own output and expertise, but directing and maximizing the workflow of others. As a leader, you are responsible for ensuring that your team has the tools, resources and skills required for success, in addition to navigating relationships and team dynamics.

Often, there is little formal support for new managers, which can make the transformation challenging. This can lead to the development of dysfunctional behaviors, which gradually become imprinted into your leadership DNA. Micro-managing is one such example.

Micromanagement occurs when leaders excessively monitor and control employees’ work, placing greater emphasis on how tasks are performed, rather than on the outcomes they are meant to achieve. This is not to suggest that structure, ethics, or company standards are unimportant. Clear operating baselines such as mutual respect, collaboration, governance and policy are essential. However, when employees are working within these established boundaries, there should be license for creativity and diverse perspectives. When a leader prioritizes absolute control, control itself becomes the objective, overshadowing the original goal.

“In reality, the opposite is true. A leader’s most meaningful role is to bring out the best in others.”

When micro-management becomes a blanket approach, regardless of demonstrated skill, there are real consequences for employee morale and output. Undoubtedly, certain team members will require closer and more hands-on supervision than others.  However, employees can develop and grow, which requires growth in leadership approach. When leaders are unable to make this pivot, some root cause examination becomes necessary. Is such close oversight truly required or are other factors such as fear, lack of trust or unclear expectations driving the behavior?

If you are struggling with micromanagement, defining purpose and intention can help reframe the issue. A useful first step is to understand the distinction between management and leadership, even though the two often overlap. Management focuses on what needs to be done, while leadership concentrates on who is doing the work. While a manager’s goal is to produce competent work, a leader’s goal is to foster the competence of others. Both roles are essential, but often require a very delicate balance.

Leaders must be honest about their factory setting-whether it’s geared toward regulating tasks, the people performing them or somewhere in between (ideally). Furthermore, in situations that do require tighter oversight, leaders should contemplate focus-whether it’s on minutia of the work or its’ intended benefit and impact. While this balance will continuously shift, a persistent pull towards aggressive control is a signal worth unpacking.

With this mindset in place, the next step is to ask some hard-hitting questions:

• Have I clearly communicated expectations and outcomes or am I assuming that my team “should” know what’s expected.

• Am I using mistakes as a coaching and learning opportunity, rather than evidence of future failure?

• Why am I really stepping in? Is there a true risk involved? Would the goal be compromised if we used an approach other than mine?

• If I wasn’t spending all of my time controlling my team’s work, what would I be able to accomplish?

• What is the right balance between oversight and support? Have I asked my team members what kind of interaction they prefer?

Finally, the most important and perhaps most difficult questions are rooted in fear. Deep down, do you worry that your team’s proficiency might overshadow your own value? If they are able to produce excellent work independently, does that leave you feeling obsolete? This apprehension often stems from the false belief that leaders must always be the best, smartest, and most capable person in the room. In reality, the opposite is true. A leader’s most meaningful role is to bring out the best in others.

For example, if you can step away from the office for a week and everything continues to run smoothly, that is not a threat, but rather a success. It demonstrates that you have built a strong and capable team. When your team shines, so do you, because their growth and performance are the truest reflection of your effectiveness as a leader. Once this shift occurs, ego and control fall into the background, allowing vision, purpose and motivation to take the lead.

Ultimately, boxing-in capable and independent employees is not a reflection of strong leadership, but of fear and insecurity. Competent leaders are not threatened by the intelligence, creativity and autonomy of their teams; they are invigorated by it. When leaders equate value and self-worth with oppressive control, it becomes anti-thetical to personal and organizational growth.

In contrast, confident and effective leaders measure success by how well their teams perform without constant oversight. Your value as a leader is not found in controlling the minute details of work that others can competently perform. Instead, your indispensability lies in anticipating what comes next and guiding your team through future challenges and removing any obstacles in the way. When leaders release the need for dominance and embrace trust, they create environments where people thrive, innovation flourishes and collective success becomes sustainable.